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Knowing you are going to court to litigate your divorce is a very scary prospect, but there are ways you can prepare yourself to mitigate the fear and to have a better chance in getting the results you're hoping for, and this episode goes through it all. (Guest: Courtney Gilmartin, NJ Protective Moms) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exexperts.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram

It's not easy to get a good night sleep when you're going through divorce, despite all the info out there on sleep hacks, sleep medicine and even gummies. We know this challenge personally, so we brought in Dr. Shelby Harris, board certified in Behavioral Sleep Medicine and a Clinical Associate Professor at Albert Einstein College of Medicine, to offer up the best tips and advice on how to get your zzz's, even under a tremendous amount of stress. (Guest: Shelby Harris, Sleep Expert) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exexperts.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram

After being in a relationship where your spouse has put you down and made you feel "less than", it can be difficult to reclaim your self-worth. In this episode, we speak to the incomparable Amanda Hanson of Midlife Muse, who has amazing insight and advice on how to get back to you. (Guest: Amanda Hanson, Midlife Muse) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exexperts.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram

Not having a partner, a plus one, a significant other to travel with makes planning trips challenging for many after divorce - especially when you have kids to wrangle. Not everyone is bold enough to do it alone, but small group travel with like-minded people who are in similar situations could be a great new choice. And now there's a way to plan trips that are catered to you, alongside other single parents. In this episode we talk all about Copilots for Coparents and their Single Parents Travel Lounge, to bring you a brand new option to continue enjoying travel with your kids while making new friends at the same time. (Guest: Nicole Cunningham, Copilots for Coparents) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exexperts.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram

Just because you separate or divorce an abuser, does not mean that the abuse stops. Whether it's emotional, mental, financial, physical or any other kind of toxic treatment, it doesn't always end when you physically separate. This can be extremely difficult and challenging to deal with, but this episode will help break down how you can navigate through it while still keeping your sanity. (Guest: Anne Wintemute, A Garden Grows) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exexperts.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram

You may think you're going to fight for a specific amount of custody or money, but you really have to know the myths of divorce, because it can be hard to pick the right battles. In this interview you'll hear how to manage your expectations around the cost, how long it'll take, alimony, custody and more. (Guest: Kara Chroback, Family Law Attorney) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exexperts.com⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram

Divorce is a big change, and it can be a hard adjustment for everyone. But what if you could master how to deal with change by adopting 5 simple mindset hacks? In this episode, we talk to Divorce Coach Jenny Stevens and learn exactly how to accomplish this with tips you can apply right now. (Guest: Jenny Stevens, Divorce Coach) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at ⁠⁠⁠www.exexperts.com⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram

Everyone always asks what to do with their money to prepare for a divorce, as well as how to protect it when it's over. In this episode, you'll hear from a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst how to deal with those things, as well as how to leverage your resources to make your divorce less expensive and less hostile. (Guest: Nikki Tucker, CFDA) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at ⁠⁠www.exexperts.com⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram

Red flags can be different for different people, but there are some universal red flags that we should all be wary of. How is it that we allow ourselves to overlook and ignore red flags, and even continue staying in a relationship when we're feeling unsettled? In this episode, Brianna McCabe spills it all about the red flags we all need to watch out for, how to determine what are red flags to you, and why she wrote all about it in The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored. (Guest: Brianna McCabe, Author) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at ⁠www.exexperts.com⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram

Getting divorced means splitting up all your stuff, and then having to buy a lot of new things for your new household - kitchenware, bedding and more. All at a time when money is tight and you are probably trying to live on a budget. in this episode, hear why Olivia Howell created the Divorce Registry and how it works. (Guest: Olivia Howell, Founder, Divorce Registry) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at www.exexperts.com. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram

Coercive control is not something we knew much about, but it turns out it occurs is many marriages - and does not stop after a divorce. It can be scary and mentally and emotionally draining, but there are ways to strategize and make sure that you are able to protect yourself and your children. This is an eye-opening episode. (Guest: Courtney Gilmartin, Founder, NJ Protective Moms) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram.

We always want you to find the best information you need when you need it, and our mission is to help break it al down easily so that you can. Our website is even color-coded by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the myFAMILY category - all about child custody, coparenting, visitation schedules and even pets and more. Organizing Your Life for Divorce - S3, Ep. 12 with Laurie Palau Covering Your Ass in Real Estate During Divorce - S3, Ep. 71 with Jill Sodafsky Why you Must Have a New Trust & Estate Plan Post-Divorce - S1, Ep. 12 with Laura Cowan Repurposing Your Engagement Ring After Divorce? - S3, Ep. 6 with Stephanie Gottlieb Top Tips for Selling Your Home After Divorce - S2, Ep. 47 with Melissa Rubenstein Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram.

We always want you to find the best information you need when you need it, and our mission is to help break it al down easily so that you can. Our website is even color-coded by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the myFAMILY category - all about child custody, coparenting, visitation schedules and even pets and more. 1. Protecting Your Kids When Divorcing a Narcissist with Christina McGhee (3, Ep. 16) 2. How Divorce Affects Kids - Are they Ok? with Amy Armstrong (S3, Ep. 7) 3. Are you co-parenting with an Asshole? with Sabrina Cronin (3, Ep. 34) 4. Harmonious Co Parenting with Luke Entrup (S4, Ep. 6) 5. Divorce Tips for Moms and Dads with Grace Casper (S3, Ep. 33) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram.

It doesn't have to be confusing to find the information you want and need when it comes to dealing with divorce, We know that making things simple helps, which is why color-coded our website by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the mySELF category - all about career, dating, self care, support and more. 1. Narcissist vs. Asshole, There's a Difference with Ina Hanson - Part 1 and Part 2 (S2, Ep. 57 & 58) 2. Dealing with a Sexless Marriage with Kim Bowan (S2, Ep. 68) 3. How to Divorce a Difficult Person with Nowal Houghton (S2, Ep. 46) 4. Personal Story of Divorcing a Narcissist with Alyssa Dineen (S3, Ep. 26) 5. Is Divorce the Right Answer with Karen McMahon (S3, Ep. 1) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram.

We are here to help you through every step of your divorce - and beyond - and we want to make it easy for you to find the best information you need when you need it. We color coded our website so you can easily find what you're looking for, and this podcast episode is a cheat sheet of the Top 5 podcasts in the myWALLET category, which is all the money-related stuff - alimony, child support, paying for your divorce, handling your finances after your divorce and more. 1. How to Find Hidden Money in Divorce with Melissa Gragg, S2, Ep. 60 2. Will I Be Able to Afford my House with Emilie Flowers, S3, Ep. 10 3. Common Financial Pitfalls in Divorce with Sara Chevere, S3, Ep. 29 4. Concerns About Money During Divorce with Rhonda Noordyk 5. Divorce and Your Money Personality with Mikelann Valterra Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram.

Our goal is to always break things down easily so that you can find the best information you need when you need it. We even have our website color-coded by category, to help you find exactly what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the myDIVORCE category - all about legal issues, finding a lawyer, what kind of divorce you want, negotiating, mediation, litigation, collaborative divorce and more. 1. Best Tips for Divorce Settlement Negotiation with Joseph Willmore (S3, Ep. 4) 2. Divorce Do's and Don'ts with Dennis Vetrano (S3, Ep. 27) 3. What Can a Retired Judge Teach you About Divorce with Hon. Ronnie Siegal (S2, Ep. 56) 4. What Can Go Wrong in Divorce Mediation with Gabrielle Hartley (S4, Ep. 4) 5. Moving Forward Through the Divorce Process with Jennifer Warren Medwin (S3, Ep. 17) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram.

Aren't you shocked sometimes at the crazy and stupid things people say to you after hearing you're getting divorced? It happens all the time, and it leaves us feeling defensive when it should be the other way around. This episode, with the amazing author of the book "Don't Fucking Say That" will give you the words you need to get around those situations, and help you think about it all in a way you never have before. (Guest: Mellissa Librach, Coach, Trainer & Author) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram.

We learn our best tips form hearing others that have gone through it, and Ilyssa Panitz has been writing and reporting on divorce for years, so she's picked up some great tips and advice from interviewing others. Here's what she learned! (Ilyssa Panitz, Divorce Journalist) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram.

If you feel like you aren't quite sure how to help your kids navigate the divorce, join the club! There isn't one surefire thing to say or way to navigate, but there are some key things to think about when it comes to helping your kids move forward. Hear what they are. (Guest: Christina McGhee, Divorce Parenting Expert) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram.

We know, you probably aren't thinking about your taxes right now, but did you know that June is the second estimated prepaid tax payment for 2025, which you have to do to avoid penalties? And you are entitled to half of your spouse's IRA or 401k, but are you calculating the taxes you'll pay on that in your divorce settlement? Taxes can get messy during divorce, and we want you to be up on everything you need to know and when. In this episode of Divorce etc..., you'll find out why you can't wait until Feb to start dealing with your taxes, and why it's so important to actually consult with an accountant in the midst of your divorce process - so that you are factoring in all of the numbers that will impact you. (Guest: Donna Stern, CPA) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok, IG, FB, YouTube.