The Gottman Doctors: "Women Tend to Be More Unhappily Married", 96% Of Non-Cuddlers Have An Awful Sex Life & Why One Night Stands Are Dangerous!
If over half of marriages end in divorce, what are the skills to make sure your relationship stays in the successful 50%?
Drs. John and Julie Gottman are world leading relationship researchers that have been studying couples for over 40 years, publishing over 200 academic journal articles and 46 books. They are the co-founders of The Gottman Institute and Love Lab.
In this conversation the Gottman’s and Steven discuss topics such as, the 3 skills you need for a healthy relationship, the steps to repair a relationship after an argument, why kissing can extend your life, and how cuddling leads to a better sex life.
Intro
What mission are you on & Why study love?
Studying traits of successful couples
Link between relationships & our health
What is the love lab?
The misconceptions about relationships
How to connect with your partner
What is the 'attuned' framework?
Why does typical couples therapy often fail?
The 7 Principles of a successful marriage
Do partners' dreams need to be aligned?
69% of our problems are not solvable
What to do when your partner wants to change you
The four horsemen
What is flooding?
What's a 'caretaker' in a relationship
Conflict misunderstandings
How to become a master at conflict resolution
How to repair/fix relationship issues
What have you learnt about the role of kissing
The role of sex in a relationship
Our society is becoming more sexless
Men struggling to figure out where they fit into society
What do women really want in a man?
Talking about sex makes your sex life better
Betrayal in a relationship
The traits that show a failing relationship
Asking your partner their dreams
Advice to give a relationship its best shot
The most interesting conclusions from the love lab
What does Julie mean to you, John
What does John mean to you, Julie
Why did you write this book
The Last Guest's question
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